Living a purpose-driven life is something that everyone wants, but not many people seem to grasp. After all, with so many voices telling you what you should or shouldn't do, and many other factors – like family or romantic relationships – determining how your lifestyle shapes up, figuring out how to chase after the lifestyle of your dreams can be confusing, at best.
Yet, the journey is well worth the effort – so, with that being said, check out these questions, which will help you pinpoint your life’s purpose.
What did you enjoy doing as a kid?
When you were 10 years old, you weren’t concerned about making a lot of money – you just wanted to be happy and fulfilled. You probably also saw the world as a blank canvas full of possibility. Get in touch with your inner child, and you might get one step closer to figuring out your purpose, while also rekindling your childlike sense of wonder. Consider asking yourself the following questions to tap into those long-forgotten dreams:
• What brought me joy as a kid?
• What did my teachers and friends say about my skills growing up?
• In what classes, sports, or arts did I excel?
• What jobs did I dream of doing as I was growing up? What’s the commonality between them?
What’s your picture of a fulfilled life?
Everyone pictures their ideal lifestyle a little differently. Some people may seek nothing more than the ability to make an impact on their community or raise successful children. Others may feel strongly about philanthropy or environmental conservation. To get at the root of what motivates you, ask yourself what a fulfilled life looks like for you. Just be sure to keep money and fame out of the equation – those factors won’t help you figure out how to turn your dreams into reality.
What would happen if you continue down your current path?
Think about where you are right now. What would happen if you carried on, without changing a thing? Many people fall into the complacency trap, where they settle for a “good enough” career, income, or lifestyle and fail to look beyond their current circumstances. While this can be comfortable now, it often does little for you later. Consider whether you’ll be happy living the same life 10 or 20 years in the future. Pinpoint why or why not, and you’ll be one step closer to figuring out your purpose.
It’s always fun to learn something new! At Oxford at Estonia Apartments in San Antonio, Texas, we love to provide you with fun, thought-provoking tidbits that will make you reflect on different aspects of life.